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THE 60 SECOND WAY
TO CLARIFY & SOLVE ALL
PROBLEMS – BY REMOVING ASSOCIATED
EMOTIONS
Copyright
James F. Coyle 2015
Many years ago I discovered, quite by
accident, a very simple method of being able to look at my problems clearly, without
all the associated upsetting emotions. The process left me clear-headed so that
I could look at my current situation objectively. I found that they were vastly
easier to solve as I could then look at them in an unconfused manner without
all the associated emotional chaos.
I have used this process constantly for the
past 15 years and it has saved me from a ton of emotional wear and tear. I
introduced this simple process to family members and selected friends who have
also reported great success as it takes the confusion and worry out of
problems.
If you suddenly become aware of a serious
problem, which can often arrive “out of the blue”, you are often thrown into a
state of mental confusion and are temporarily unable to separate the “forest
from the trees”. As such you may not handle this unexpected set of
circumstances in the correct manner and later seriously regret the way you
processed it. Your emotions take over and you find yourself unable to think
through the situation with a clear head.
Sound familiar?
The trick is to separate your emotions from
the actual problem so you can process things in a clear-headed manner.
Sound impossible?
Well, it’s not!
There is one dead simple way you can divorce
your emotions and arrive at the correct solution.
Let me explain how I discovered this;
Around 15 years ago I travelled to Hawaii to
attend a Kahuna course. Part of the course involved
me participating in a “High Alter” event where I was lying on an elevated table
and being massaged. The most amazing music was playing in the background. I
started to drift off and suddenly I appeared to be “floating” above the table.
I found myself looking down on this event where I could clearly see myself
being massaged. This was a standard out-of-body experience induced by the
massage and music. The interesting thing was that I felt totally at peace with
myself and felt “divorced” from all physical reality. This was the first time I
had experienced an OBE and it had a big impact on me. I remember thinking that
this would be a wonderful experience to call upon whenever I felt overly
stressed.
Eventually the massage finished but I was
left feeling rather overawed by what happened.
Not long after that while back in Australia a
problem arose that caused a batch of conflicting emotions and I wondered how I
was going to be able to handle it. It wasn’t particularly serious….. just a standard business problem but nevertheless it was
decidedly worrying and if I didn’t deal with it correctly I would lose several
thousand dollars. I sat there pondering about what to do when suddenly that
Hawaiian OBE flashed into my mind. I suddenly realized that if I could remove
my emotions from this nasty little problem I might be able to come up with a
decent solution. So that is what I did.
I lay back in a reclining
chair I had in the office and totally relaxed. I then imagined myself floating
up to the ceiling looking down on my body sitting in the chair and I said to
myself…. “Now how is James going to
handle this?”
(I was talking to myself
here).
Within 2-3 minutes a
solution popped into my head and it was breathtakingly simple. I had found the
answer. I applied this solution and within 2 days the problem was totally
solved.
I was able to arrive at the correct
conclusion because I had successfully divorced my tangled emotions. I was “floating” above them all and the
emotions tied to this problem didn’t seem to affect me.
This was the first time I had intentionally
tried this process and I personally thought the whole thing was absolutely
brilliant.
Then from time to time when problems arose I
would follow the exact same process and it never
failed to work!
I have used this problem solving method for
the past 15 years all because of this amazing experience I had in Hawaii.
It occurred to me that others would probably
find this process helpful so just recently I decided to write about it.
HOW TO GO ABOUT SOLVING YOUR OWN PROBLEMS.
Let us suppose a serious problem has occurred
in your life. It might be to do with finance or something of a personal nature.
You are emotionally disturbed and can’t think clearly, a fact that you are well
aware of but don’t know how to handle it.
Try this:
Sit back in a comfortable chair (or lie down) and close your eyes. Try
and visualize yourself losing weight and
floating towards the ceiling. “See” yourself
hanging up there looking downwards and say to yourself …. “How is (your name) going to handle this? This will be
interesting to see! I wonder what he-she will do?”
Look downwards at yourself objectively, as if
you were a totally different person and merely an observer. Because you are
looking at a “different person” you will feel little if any emotion for them.
This act will emotionally divorce yourself from the problem. Persevere with
this for several minutes then let it go. Try it again later if a solution
doesn’t immediately pop into your mind.
You may have to do this exercise several
times to achieve the result you want. In fact it could take several days.
I quite often find the process to be slightly
amusing. I think to myself……. “James,
you’ve landed yourself in the crap so how are you going to get out of it?”
I am looking down objectively at myself waiting to see what “I do.”
I have divorced myself from all the emotions
and reality involved and treat my floating body as a
third-party observer merely watching to see what transpires.
At some point during the day don’t be
surprised if the answer suddenly appears into your mind. It may be something
totally unexpected….. more of a lateral outside-the-box answer. What you are
looking for of course is one of these “lateral thinking” solutions. Sort of an
inspired “Aha” result.
I have had friends try this out and it
usually works but sometimes can take several days. However the more they
practice this simple process the speedier the future results arrive because
they are training their unemotive
subconscious to manifest the desired answer. They are creating a response
pattern in their subconscious to create the desired solutions. This is rather
like creating a new “habit.”
A friend of mine became involved in a rather
serious court case which he expected to last for at least 5 days. He stood to
lose his house if he lost and he approached me and asked how I would handle the
stress involved. I explained this third-party “floating” concept to him and
during critical times throughout the giving of evidence he “saw” himself
floating objectively above the courtroom, looking down on it all in a bemused
manner. As it transpired he won his case and he told me later that without this
artificial objectivity his emotions would have got the better of him and he
might well have lost. His lawyer told him later that he was a most impressive
client as he had appeared to be emotionless. My friend was truly grateful. Since then he has used this process regularly
for the past couple of years.
The same situation can apply to many aspects
of your life. If you are locked into a situation that you feel is out of
control you can use this objectivity method to distance your emotional
involvement. Occasionally we all get locked into something that causes severe
stress so here is one effective way to handle it. Just remember time cures
everything and these potentially disastrous situations usually solve themselves
eventually. In the meantime if you can handle them without the emotion you will
be far better off. Excess emotion can be a soul destroyer and can totally
disrupt our lives if not controlled. Our jails are filled with individuals who
have let their emotions take control.
Each and every individual has a different
ability to handle excess stress but if you can sidestep it or artificially
reduce it then you will be a much happier person. Also you will gain massive
confidence in your ability to handle problems.
ANOTHER METHOD
The other way to handle these problems is to
use dream control. As you lie in bed at night waiting for sleep run the problem
through your mind and say to yourself….. “Tonight
I will have a dream that solves this problem for me.”
Keep repeating this message until you fall
asleep. You are instructing your subconscious to work out potential answers and
you might be pleasantly surprised to find that the correct solution simply
“pops” into your head sometime the next day. Dream control has proven to be a
highly effective method for creating positive results. It has been used
successfully for all sorts of personal problems including medical ones. The
original idea for this process came from the SETH books. Until then nobody knew
anything about dream control until the SETH character pointed out how it could
be used. It turned out to be quite a useful burst of new knowledge for the
mind-power fraternity but the process is still generally unknown among members
of the public.
I have written more extensively about this
dream control in some of my other books so I won’t expand on it here.
This method of “floating” above your problems
is quite an original concept also. Perhaps by combining both methods described
above you might experience a more pleasant life.
I certainly hope so!
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